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What to do in such a situation?
When you have a wife who is toxic and looks for problems that don't exist, disregards her husband and his opinion. She does everything hastily and I have some concerns. It seems to me that either her work or the company she keeps have changed her and someone is putting nonsense in her head. What do you think about this?
When you have a wife who is toxic and looks for problems that don't exist, disregards her husband and his opinion. She does everything hastily and I have some concerns. It seems to me that either her work or the company she keeps have changed her and someone is putting nonsense in her head. What do you think about this?
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"If she changed her company, for sure it also changed her."
"If she changed her company, for sure it also changed her."
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I think that if what you write is true, it is a matter of character rather than change.
I think that if what you write is true, it is a matter of character rather than change.
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If she earns better than her husband and doesn't feel that her husband can uplift her, she will find problems. Another situation is when a woman is convinced that she is with the best possible guy... then such a relationship may look different.
If she earns better than her husband and doesn't feel that her husband can uplift her, she will find problems. Another situation is when a woman is convinced that she is with the best possible guy... then such a relationship may look different.
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In such a situation, it is important to communicate with your wife and try to understand why she behaves so toxic. It may be worth suggesting marriage therapy to find a way to solve problems and improve the relationship. If you suspect that a change in job or environment may have an impact on her behavior, it is worth openly discussing it and outlining boundaries regarding manipulation and the influence of others on your relationship. It is important not to belittle your concerns and neglect your partner's opinion. Mutual empathy and trust are necessary to find common solutions and create a healthy relationship.
In such a situation, it is important to communicate with your wife and try to understand why she behaves so toxic. It may be worth suggesting marriage therapy to find a way to solve problems and improve the relationship. If you suspect that a change in job or environment may have an impact on her behavior, it is worth openly discussing it and outlining boundaries regarding manipulation and the influence of others on your relationship. It is important not to belittle your concerns and neglect your partner's opinion. Mutual empathy and trust are necessary to find common solutions and create a healthy relationship.
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There can be several reasons:
- You don't pay her enough attention and she doesn't feel that you care about her.
- You don't talk to her and you're not as interested as you used to be.
- Without nurturing the relationship after many years, this often happens.
- If she's looking for problems that don't exist, there's a good chance she already has someone else, which you don't know about yet.
- She has too many responsibilities, stress, and nerves, and she takes it out on you.
- Without honest conversation and interest, this can lead to the breakdown of your relationship.
There can be several reasons:
- You don't pay her enough attention and she doesn't feel that you care about her.
- You don't talk to her and you're not as interested as you used to be.
- Without nurturing the relationship after many years, this often happens.
- If she's looking for problems that don't exist, there's a good chance she already has someone else, which you don't know about yet.
- She has too many responsibilities, stress, and nerves, and she takes it out on you.
- Without honest conversation and interest, this can lead to the breakdown of your relationship.
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You need an honest conversation. Perhaps you have completely different perceptions of the so-called world. If you take the initiative, prepare a series of questions that you want to get answers to. The questions should relate to your shared life and should not be aggressive or attacking. No matter how the answers affect you, try to remain calm. Ask for clarification and possibly supplement with your emotions or feelings, but also calmly. After everything, reflect on what you heard and only then consider whether it's your wife that has changed or maybe you have. It may turn out that you have many common issues, or perhaps you have become complete strangers and there is no longer a "you".
You need an honest conversation. Perhaps you have completely different perceptions of the so-called world. If you take the initiative, prepare a series of questions that you want to get answers to. The questions should relate to your shared life and should not be aggressive or attacking. No matter how the answers affect you, try to remain calm. Ask for clarification and possibly supplement with your emotions or feelings, but also calmly. After everything, reflect on what you heard and only then consider whether it's your wife that has changed or maybe you have. It may turn out that you have many common issues, or perhaps you have become complete strangers and there is no longer a "you".
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