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What to do when your loved one avoids sex?

What to do when your loved one avoids sex?
What to do when your loved one avoids sex?
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Bartłomiej Fal
Maybe dinner, conversation, and something will come out of it.
Maybe dinner, conversation, and something will come out of it.

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Sisi SisiSisi

Give her time and don't pressure 🤗

Give her time and don't pressure 🤗

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Anonymous

We want to deal with serious topics. Don't post shallow topics here.

We want to deal with serious topics. Don't post shallow topics here.

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Adam Konieczka

To talk calmly about what is going on, maybe something has offended her and it will be fine.

To talk calmly about what is going on, maybe something has offended her and it will be fine.

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OpenAI BOT
"When a loved one avoids sex, the most important thing is to maintain respect and empathy towards them. First and foremost, it is important to discuss the problem openly and honestly. You can start by asking if anything bothers them, if they feel comfortable in their body, or if they have any concerns or fears related to sex. If the loved one experiences any physical or emotional problems, it is important to support them and encourage them to consult a doctor or therapist. Couples therapy can also be a good solution to help understand the root of the problem and find ways to resolve it. It is important to be patient and not pressure the loved one for sex. Crossing boundaries is not an appropriate approach and can only exacerbate the problem. Instead, it is worth focusing on building closeness and intimacy on other levels, such as deep conversations, shared activities, caresses, and touching, which can help maintain emotional bonds. In some cases, professional help may be necessary, so it is worth considering couples or individual therapy to help both yourself and the loved one cope with the problem. Also remember that every person has the right to determine their boundaries and comfort in the sexual sphere, so it is important to respect these decisions."
"When a loved one avoids sex, the most important thing is to maintain respect and empathy towards them. First and foremost, it is important to discuss the problem openly and honestly. You can start by asking if anything bothers them, if they feel comfortable in their body, or if they have any concerns or fears related to sex. If the loved one experiences any physical or emotional problems, it is important to support them and encourage them to consult a doctor or therapist. Couples therapy can also be a good solution to help understand the root of the problem and find ways to resolve it. It is important to be patient and not pressure the loved one for sex. Crossing boundaries is not an appropriate approach and can only exacerbate the problem. Instead, it is worth focusing on building closeness and intimacy on other levels, such as deep conversations, shared activities, caresses, and touching, which can help maintain emotional bonds. In some cases, professional help may be necessary, so it is worth considering couples or individual therapy to help both yourself and the loved one cope with the problem. Also remember that every person has the right to determine their boundaries and comfort in the sexual sphere, so it is important to respect these decisions."

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Ernest Krezymon
"If I'm honest, it's time for proper blood tests and appropriate treatment with testosterone. She is probably not satisfied with the relationship, so as a preventative measure, I would advise to ensure that it is the other way around ;)"
"If I'm honest, it's time for proper blood tests and appropriate treatment with testosterone. She is probably not satisfied with the relationship, so as a preventative measure, I would advise to ensure that it is the other way around ;)"

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Lukasz Bielinski

Probably some of her needs may be unfulfilled - for example, at the level of her daily experiences such as lack of rest, lack of security, lack of self-realization, etc., where stress, fatigue, or monotony make the other person uninterested in sex because those emotions dominate and decrease libido. But there may also be needs at the level of the relationship, for example, closeness - she may lack closeness with you (because you may have drifted apart, because after the infatuation period it turned out that you may not have many common areas that connect and bring you closer) and this causes a decrease in interest in sex. And perhaps there is a need for subjectivity because, for example, the belief has arisen in the partner that she does not want to be just an "object" to satisfy your sexual needs and she would like other areas of life to bring joy to the relationship, not just sex. And perhaps she would like diversity in satisfying the need for closeness - so that sex is not the only strategy for closeness. So, in general, I recommend talking about needs - especially based on Nonviolent Communication.

Probably some of her needs may be unfulfilled - for example, at the level of her daily experiences such as lack of rest, lack of security, lack of self-realization, etc., where stress, fatigue, or monotony make the other person uninterested in sex because those emotions dominate and decrease libido. But there may also be needs at the level of the relationship, for example, closeness - she may lack closeness with you (because you may have drifted apart, because after the infatuation period it turned out that you may not have many common areas that connect and bring you closer) and this causes a decrease in interest in sex. And perhaps there is a need for subjectivity because, for example, the belief has arisen in the partner that she does not want to be just an "object" to satisfy your sexual needs and she would like other areas of life to bring joy to the relationship, not just sex. And perhaps she would like diversity in satisfying the need for closeness - so that sex is not the only strategy for closeness. So, in general, I recommend talking about needs - especially based on Nonviolent Communication.

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