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What criteria do you use to call someone a "Friend"?
My criteria are: - duration of acquaintance - situational contexts that have become a shared experience - the other party's response to these events - honesty and ability to keep the obtained content to oneself The order of criteria is random. Photo by Nicholas Swat.
My criteria are: - duration of acquaintance - situational contexts that have become a shared experience - the other party's response to these events - honesty and ability to keep the obtained content to oneself The order of criteria is random. Photo by Nicholas Swat.
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Friend does not want anything in return. He is interested in what's happening with me... it has to work both ways. He doesn't get offended when I refuse. Mutual understanding. I met such a person. Let's always support each other.
Friend does not want anything in return. He is interested in what's happening with me... it has to work both ways. He doesn't get offended when I refuse. Mutual understanding. I met such a person. Let's always support each other.
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WHAT CRITERIA DO YOU USE TO CALL SOMEONE A "FRIEND"? When I consider which criteria to use to call someone a "friend", I automatically go through my personal list of trustworthy and fair indicators. Friendship is something extremely valuable and should be cared for just like our health or well-being. Of course, everyone has their own preferences and priorities, but in my opinion, there are several immutable criteria that are the true foundations of friendship. First and foremost, a true friend is always there when you need them. They are the person who offers their support in difficult times and lends an ear when you need to talk. Regardless of the problem you are facing, friends are ready to listen, advise, and support you when your feet begin to buckle under the weight of everyday life. This characteristic is crucial because it shows whether a person is ready to be there for you not only in good times but also in difficult moments. Secondly, a true friend is always honest and authentic. They have no need to pretend to be someone they are not. In the case of true friendship, this is a simple litmus test measuring the level of authenticity, honesty, and sincerity. Only then can we truly call these people our friends. Isn't it amazing to see someone's true self without any masks? Another essential criterion is mutual support and motivation. A true friend always wants the best for you and will support you in achieving your goals. It doesn't matter whether you are at the top of the mountain or at the bottom of the valley - they will always stand by your side, ready to help and give you wings. They are the person who not only celebrates your successes but also helps you overcome failures and get back on track. The ultimate criterion that, in my opinion, defines true friendship is mutual acceptance and tolerance. Friends do not have to agree on everything; they can have different views and interests. However, true friendship involves respecting these differences and accepting the other person as they are. There is no place for judgment or criticism. It is important to properly assess your relationship and avoid actions that would damage it. Finally, when considering which criteria to use to call someone a "friend", we should look deep within ourselves and consider what qualities are truly important to us. True friendship is priceless and requires time, commitment, and attention. That is why we must be selective when deciding who deserves to be called a "friend".
WHAT CRITERIA DO YOU USE TO CALL SOMEONE A "FRIEND"? When I consider which criteria to use to call someone a "friend", I automatically go through my personal list of trustworthy and fair indicators. Friendship is something extremely valuable and should be cared for just like our health or well-being. Of course, everyone has their own preferences and priorities, but in my opinion, there are several immutable criteria that are the true foundations of friendship. First and foremost, a true friend is always there when you need them. They are the person who offers their support in difficult times and lends an ear when you need to talk. Regardless of the problem you are facing, friends are ready to listen, advise, and support you when your feet begin to buckle under the weight of everyday life. This characteristic is crucial because it shows whether a person is ready to be there for you not only in good times but also in difficult moments. Secondly, a true friend is always honest and authentic. They have no need to pretend to be someone they are not. In the case of true friendship, this is a simple litmus test measuring the level of authenticity, honesty, and sincerity. Only then can we truly call these people our friends. Isn't it amazing to see someone's true self without any masks? Another essential criterion is mutual support and motivation. A true friend always wants the best for you and will support you in achieving your goals. It doesn't matter whether you are at the top of the mountain or at the bottom of the valley - they will always stand by your side, ready to help and give you wings. They are the person who not only celebrates your successes but also helps you overcome failures and get back on track. The ultimate criterion that, in my opinion, defines true friendship is mutual acceptance and tolerance. Friends do not have to agree on everything; they can have different views and interests. However, true friendship involves respecting these differences and accepting the other person as they are. There is no place for judgment or criticism. It is important to properly assess your relationship and avoid actions that would damage it. Finally, when considering which criteria to use to call someone a "friend", we should look deep within ourselves and consider what qualities are truly important to us. True friendship is priceless and requires time, commitment, and attention. That is why we must be selective when deciding who deserves to be called a "friend".
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1. Length of the relationship on the timeline. 2. Trust. 3. Behavior in relationship crises.
1. Length of the relationship on the timeline. 2. Trust. 3. Behavior in relationship crises.
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Friend for me is a person who understands me. A person who doesn't want anything in return, likes to spend time with me, a person with whom we forget about problems, and when problems appear, they will be the first person to rush to our aid. A friend is a person who gives you their heart, without expecting anything in return, gives themselves to you without expecting compensation 💪🏽
Friend for me is a person who understands me. A person who doesn't want anything in return, likes to spend time with me, a person with whom we forget about problems, and when problems appear, they will be the first person to rush to our aid. A friend is a person who gives you their heart, without expecting anything in return, gives themselves to you without expecting compensation 💪🏽
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Establishing a close friendship requires time and patience - from both sides, but also certain qualities such as selflessness, sincerity, loyalty, honesty... Personally, I don't have any close friends - no one has reached that level :)
Establishing a close friendship requires time and patience - from both sides, but also certain qualities such as selflessness, sincerity, loyalty, honesty... Personally, I don't have any close friends - no one has reached that level :)
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To call someone a friend, I must be sure that I can count on this person in difficult, crisis situations. To gain that certainty, usually time and verification through such situations are needed. Honesty and openness to another person are also required. Lack of judgment does not mean lack of often differing opinions.
To call someone a friend, I must be sure that I can count on this person in difficult, crisis situations. To gain that certainty, usually time and verification through such situations are needed. Honesty and openness to another person are also required. Lack of judgment does not mean lack of often differing opinions.
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My criteria are: the length of knowing the situational contexts that have become a shared experience, the reaction of the other party to these events, sincerity, and the ability to keep the obtained content for oneself. The order of the criteria is random. Photo by Nicholas Swat.
My criteria are: the length of knowing the situational contexts that have become a shared experience, the reaction of the other party to these events, sincerity, and the ability to keep the obtained content for oneself. The order of the criteria is random. Photo by Nicholas Swat.
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