Another ordinary unrequited love?
Have you fallen in love with a friend? Known topic huh? How much do you hear about unrequited love? She doesn't want you and offers you friendship, so you accept. You hope that it will bring you closer and eventually you will be together. In almost one hundred percent of cases, you would be wrong. Everyone knows it, and so do you, but you don't want it to happen to you. Because of this, being in such a relationship, you simply suffer. How many times do you imagine professing your love to her, she refuses and you end this so-called friendship. Even so, you still hope that maybe he won't say no, maybe he will reciprocate your feelings.
From an early age, I was unlucky in love. I have been in the situation described above many times. And I must admit that I learned a lot. The first and most important thing is that being friends with your crush seemingly makes you happy. You are happy that you are close to her, that you are important to her. But the truth is, this whole situation is eating you up inside. You wake up in the morning and you think about her, you go to sleep and you think about her. There comes a day when you can't stand it and confess your love to her. You don't give up hope that she will reciprocate.
It would seem that your heart is pulling you to make such a decision. Nothing could be more wrong. It's just that deep down you're fed up with this inner suffering. Your brain knows that She just doesn't love you, tries to tell you that there's no point in continuing this somewhat false friendship, and tricks you into telling the truth knowing what her answer will be. If you've been through a situation like this, you know you're going to suffer, but you know you'll eventually forget about it, and that momentary torment is much better than the constant pain that accompanies you during the worst of all possible relationships - "(Un) Loving Friendship" . How much time have you wasted thinking about what decision to make? Know that you can't choose right, you can only choose the lesser evil. So you've learned a lesson not to get into this type of relationship in the future.
But what if you meet a girl and you don't feel anything for her? Nothing at all, you don't even like it. You two get along great, spend a lot of time together and talk about everything. She's like a sister to you. Suddenly you feel that something is starting to change, thinking about your past experiences you notice that you seem to be falling in love with her. As if that wasn't enough, you notice that you are also very important to her. But it's just friendship, and she often shows it to you. You wonder if you really love her or if you just think she loves you too but doesn't want to show it. For various reasons, for example, because she herself is afraid that you will reject her. Is it the same? Is it a simple "(un)loving friendship"?
Have you fallen in love with a friend? Known topic huh? How much do you hear about unrequited love? She doesn't want you and offers you friendship, so you accept. You hope that it will bring you closer and eventually you will be together. In almost one hundred percent of cases, you would be wrong. Everyone knows it, and so do you, but you don't want it to happen to you. Because of this, being in such a relationship, you simply suffer. How many times do you imagine professing your love to her, she refuses and you end this so-called friendship. Even so, you still hope that maybe he won't say no, maybe he will reciprocate your feelings.
From an early age, I was unlucky in love. I have been in the situation described above many times. And I must admit that I learned a lot. The first and most important thing is that being friends with your crush seemingly makes you happy. You are happy that you are close to her, that you are important to her. But the truth is, this whole situation is eating you up inside. You wake up in the morning and you think about her, you go to sleep and you think about her. There comes a day when you can't stand it and confess your love to her. You don't give up hope that she will reciprocate.
It would seem that your heart is pulling you to make such a decision. Nothing could be more wrong. It's just that deep down you're fed up with this inner suffering. Your brain knows that She just doesn't love you, tries to tell you that there's no point in continuing this somewhat false friendship, and tricks you into telling the truth knowing what her answer will be. If you've been through a situation like this, you know you're going to suffer, but you know you'll eventually forget about it, and that momentary torment is much better than the constant pain that accompanies you during the worst of all possible relationships - "(Un) Loving Friendship" . How much time have you wasted thinking about what decision to make? Know that you can't choose right, you can only choose the lesser evil. So you've learned a lesson not to get into this type of relationship in the future.
But what if you meet a girl and you don't feel anything for her? Nothing at all, you don't even like it. You two get along great, spend a lot of time together and talk about everything. She's like a sister to you. Suddenly you feel that something is starting to change, thinking about your past experiences you notice that you seem to be falling in love with her. As if that wasn't enough, you notice that you are also very important to her. But it's just friendship, and she often shows it to you. You wonder if you really love her or if you just think she loves you too but doesn't want to show it. For various reasons, for example, because she herself is afraid that you will reject her. Is it the same? Is it a simple "(un)loving friendship"?
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