It is not the goal that matters, but the journey to it.

And how do you ponder? Is there some one "pill" that can change your fate? Can you wake up as a new person? Like everything in this life, it is not that clear. This is not the matrix. And even if it were a matrix, you must know that Neo worked for years after hours to become Neo. The pill was not presented to him just by chance. Every day for years he strived to become the one. He had the opportunity to choose the red or blue pill because he was working towards that moment with daily activities that directed him that way.

Even you, if you are at a crossroads in your current situation, must choose which way to go. You cannot expect any change if you do not move from your place. It will obviously be a negative path if you blindly walk without looking ahead. But it can also be a path that will gradually increase the quality of life and more clearly specify further plans. Because with regular personal development, you can notice changes in the decisions you make. Suddenly you see that the path that was once traversed with uncertainty begins to brighten. As you gain new experiences, you see which direction to go next. This is the wonderful thing about personal development, that it works gradually and during the journey you make better choices for the next steps. They are more certain.

In my opinion, there is no such thing as a total change in one night. But there are daily small changes that, from a time perspective, yield amazing results. Returning to Neo from the Matrix, he himself wandered before finding the truth. But despite wandering, he kept going, correcting his route.

You can do that too. Even if you don’t know exactly what you want to do, work on yourself every day. Because with the increase of knowledge, experience, expertise in any topic, you will make better choices in the future that will positively impact your daily life.

It is so because I experienced it myself. I knew that a dark road lay ahead of me, but first I equipped myself with a "flashlight" and carefully took each step. I wandered, and then found my way again. Months passed, and I was still on the path of personal development. Suddenly I noticed that I had access to new tools that illuminated my path even better. After a year, I saw that on the route I no longer needed to light the way because it was brightening on its own. I began to see which direction to go and which branches to avoid.

I am currently on a path that is already illuminated. The goal is still far away, but I am starting to enjoy the process of overcoming it. Because it is the journey that matters. Its goal is just a point on the map, to then set a new one!