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Wiktoria Badora
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Is the dislike of mum's new partner normal?

Hello. I have a problem. My mother recently divorced my father. He went to his lover, and my mother found herself a new boyfriend. And here's the problem. Every time I see it, the penknife in my pocket literally opens. He may not say anything, but I am simply annoyed by the person himself. Is this behavior normal, if you can call it that, is it jealousy? I say right away that he is not my type.

Hello. I have a problem. My mother recently divorced my father. He went to his lover, and my mother found herself a new boyfriend. And here's the problem. Every time I see it, the penknife in my pocket literally opens. He may not say anything, but I am simply annoyed by the person himself. Is this behavior normal, if you can call it that, is it jealousy? I say right away that he is not my type.

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Elżbieta Grabka
It is worth allowing yourself negative emotions, asking yourself What is this emotion supposed to show me? What do I really feel deep down? Every emotion is information and it is worth working through it, because suppressing them is the worst. You can make your emotions go outside and not hurt anyone - go to martial arts classes, boxing, compose metal music (you will find many free mobile applications for this purpose - e.g. Bandlab). It is worth artistically and physically letting this emotion leave our body.
It is worth allowing yourself negative emotions, asking yourself What is this emotion supposed to show me? What do I really feel deep down? Every emotion is information and it is worth working through it, because suppressing them is the worst. You can make your emotions go outside and not hurt anyone - go to martial arts classes, boxing, compose metal music (you will find many free mobile applications for this purpose - e.g. Bandlab). It is worth artistically and physically letting this emotion leave our body.

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Andrzej Koźniewski
The fact that you may not like someone, evokes negative emotions in you is the most normal thing and absolutely does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Although, of course, it would be worth working on understanding how you feel and whether it really means something specific or, for example, is it just some common prejudice against this person, which results from the fact that you simply don't know him well.
The fact that you may not like someone, evokes negative emotions in you is the most normal thing and absolutely does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Although, of course, it would be worth working on understanding how you feel and whether it really means something specific or, for example, is it just some common prejudice against this person, which results from the fact that you simply don't know him well.

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Mikołaj .
I think the most important thing is talking, especially with those we care about. Talk to your mother about what you think and feel. If that doesn't help, you can go to a qualified psychologist or doctor for help
I think the most important thing is talking, especially with those we care about. Talk to your mother about what you think and feel. If that doesn't help, you can go to a qualified psychologist or doctor for help

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Ilona CIZEWSKA
Hello, human emotions are human nature. People interact in certain ways, and sometimes it's hard for us to define the cause. Such behavior, defined as "a penknife opening in a pocket", may be based on various reasons: fear or concern for a person significant to us, fear of a new relationship that was not intentional, resemblance to a person who does not or did not arouse positive emotions in the past. emotions.
Hello, human emotions are human nature. People interact in certain ways, and sometimes it's hard for us to define the cause. Such behavior, defined as "a penknife opening in a pocket", may be based on various reasons: fear or concern for a person significant to us, fear of a new relationship that was not intentional, resemblance to a person who does not or did not arouse positive emotions in the past. emotions.

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Piotr Peszek
It seems to me that the answer to your question may lie in your subconscious, because there are thoughts and feelings that we are not aware of. To look into your subconscious, it is good to look at your thoughts and emotions that cannot be logically explained.
It seems to me that the answer to your question may lie in your subconscious, because there are thoughts and feelings that we are not aware of. To look into your subconscious, it is good to look at your thoughts and emotions that cannot be logically explained.

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Lucky Loser
probably normal, respect must be earned
probably normal, respect must be earned

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Alf Gall

Postępuj tak jak Ci serce podpowiada.Jak nowy partner mamy naprawdę ją kocha wytrzyma wszystko.Po jakimś czasie daj mu szansę.Skreślanie osób w takiej sytuacji do niczego nie prowadziTwoja mama jak będziesz cały czas na nie dojdzie do wniosku,że stoiSz na drodze jej szczęścia a wtedy masz podwójną drogę do normalności

Postępuj tak jak Ci serce podpowiada.Jak nowy partner mamy naprawdę ją kocha wytrzyma wszystko.Po jakimś czasie daj mu szansę.Skreślanie osób w takiej sytuacji do niczego nie prowadziTwoja mama jak będziesz cały czas na nie dojdzie do wniosku,że stoiSz na drodze jej szczęścia a wtedy masz podwójną drogę do normalności

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Yes, the reluctance towards your mom's new partner is normal. After parents' divorce, various emotions can arise, including jealousy or reluctance towards the new partner of one of the parents. However, it is important to try to understand the source of these emotions and find ways to express or resolve them. It may be worth talking to someone close about these feelings to better understand them and find a way to work through them.
Yes, the reluctance towards your mom's new partner is normal. After parents' divorce, various emotions can arise, including jealousy or reluctance towards the new partner of one of the parents. However, it is important to try to understand the source of these emotions and find ways to express or resolve them. It may be worth talking to someone close about these feelings to better understand them and find a way to work through them.

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