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Was zu wählen… Leben in einer toxischen Beziehung oder sich mit jemandem verbinden, der uns Ruhe, Sicherheit und materiellen Wohlstand bietet? Welche Option ist Ihrer Meinung nach besser?
Was zu wählen… Leben in einer toxischen Beziehung oder sich mit jemandem verbinden, der uns Ruhe, Sicherheit und materiellen Wohlstand bietet? Welche Option ist Ihrer Meinung nach besser?
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Great choice: toxic relationship or peace and security. Well, then I'll take peace and security. But maybe someone still prefers toxic relationships?
Great choice: toxic relationship or peace and security. Well, then I'll take peace and security. But maybe someone still prefers toxic relationships?
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I'm afraid that such a presented choice will not be difficult. The real problem is recognition of love (not infatuation, falling in love or desire) and maintaining a healthy mind - in fact, without it, such recognition has little chance. In life, problems and conditions are much more complicated and difficult to solve. After making my choice, I see that love and healthy mind are not opposites at all. Rather, it is a healthy, albeit difficult, combination. A toxic relationship poisons both sides.
I'm afraid that such a presented choice will not be difficult. The real problem is recognition of love (not infatuation, falling in love or desire) and maintaining a healthy mind - in fact, without it, such recognition has little chance. In life, problems and conditions are much more complicated and difficult to solve. After making my choice, I see that love and healthy mind are not opposites at all. Rather, it is a healthy, albeit difficult, combination. A toxic relationship poisons both sides.
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It is worth asking yourself the question: Why am I in this relationship? and the next question: Why do I want to be in another relationship? These answers will indicate the benefits that you can derive from both relationships. Look at many aspects that are present in a relationship: psychological (support, respect), relational (mutual understanding and help), cognitive (what you can learn from each other and be inspired by), physical (fulfilling sexual needs, closeness, sharing the same values in daily rituals). The answers should be logical and preferably based on facts that support them. Feel free to reach out if needed. I'm eager to help. Best regards and best of luck with your decision.
It is worth asking yourself the question: Why am I in this relationship? and the next question: Why do I want to be in another relationship? These answers will indicate the benefits that you can derive from both relationships. Look at many aspects that are present in a relationship: psychological (support, respect), relational (mutual understanding and help), cognitive (what you can learn from each other and be inspired by), physical (fulfilling sexual needs, closeness, sharing the same values in daily rituals). The answers should be logical and preferably based on facts that support them. Feel free to reach out if needed. I'm eager to help. Best regards and best of luck with your decision.
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Of course, to connect with a person who ensures our security and tranquility
Of course, to connect with a person who ensures our security and tranquility
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There is one more option, in my opinion the best one... to stay single and eventually you will find someone with whom you won't have to ask yourself such silly questions.
There is one more option, in my opinion the best one... to stay single and eventually you will find someone with whom you won't have to ask yourself such silly questions.
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