Hayatta en önemli olan şey, çaba harcamak değil, çünkü sadece eylem sonuç getirir.
Birçok insan hayatta "çalışacağım", "deneyeceğim", "göreceğim" gibi ifadeler kullanarak, bunların faydasızlığının farkında olmadan alışkanlık halinde kullanır. Bu tür ifadelerin kullanılması duygusal bir nitelik taşır ve genellikle kişi kullanılan iletişim şekillerini duymaz. Bu ifadeler mantıksal ve etkili bir eyleme izin vermez. Eyleme yönlendirilmesi gereken enerji, denemelere, motivasyon arayışına değil, etkili eyleme yönlendirilir.
Ne yapabilirsiniz farklı olarak:
- başlangıçta bir deney: günde kaç kez böyle ifadeler kullandığınızı ya da yakınınızdaki birisi kullanıyorsa sayın
- "yapıyorum" gibi ifadeler kullanın, özellikle isteksizlik yaratan görevlerle ilgili olarak, temizlik, iş, resmi işler gibi
- zevk aldığınız görevler için "istemek" ya da "zevk alarak yapıyorum" ifadelerini kullanın
- eylemi yapmakta isteksizlik ve zorluk hissediyorsanız, birkaç dakika bekleyip mantıklı, duygusal değil, etkili bir eylemde bulunun
Unutmayın: Hayatta yapmak önemlidir, uğraşmak değil, çünkü yalnızca eylem sonuç getirir
Birçok insan hayatta "çalışacağım", "deneyeceğim", "göreceğim" gibi ifadeler kullanarak, bunların faydasızlığının farkında olmadan alışkanlık halinde kullanır. Bu tür ifadelerin kullanılması duygusal bir nitelik taşır ve genellikle kişi kullanılan iletişim şekillerini duymaz. Bu ifadeler mantıksal ve etkili bir eyleme izin vermez. Eyleme yönlendirilmesi gereken enerji, denemelere, motivasyon arayışına değil, etkili eyleme yönlendirilir.
Ne yapabilirsiniz farklı olarak:
- başlangıçta bir deney: günde kaç kez böyle ifadeler kullandığınızı ya da yakınınızdaki birisi kullanıyorsa sayın
- "yapıyorum" gibi ifadeler kullanın, özellikle isteksizlik yaratan görevlerle ilgili olarak, temizlik, iş, resmi işler gibi
- zevk aldığınız görevler için "istemek" ya da "zevk alarak yapıyorum" ifadelerini kullanın
- eylemi yapmakta isteksizlik ve zorluk hissediyorsanız, birkaç dakika bekleyip mantıklı, duygusal değil, etkili bir eylemde bulunun
Unutmayın: Hayatta yapmak önemlidir, uğraşmak değil, çünkü yalnızca eylem sonuç getirir
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Thank you for bringing up this topic.
At first glance, it may seem that using words like "I will try", "I will attempt", or "I will see" is completely natural and harmless. However, upon closer examination, it can be seen that such terms can be harmful to our effectiveness and efficiency in action.
When we say "I will try", we suggest to ourselves that we do not have to do everything in our power to achieve the goal. We already have a built-in excuse that allows us to potentially fail. The same applies to the word "attempt" - instead of approaching the task with determination and confidence, we leave ourselves open to failure.
So what can we do differently? Instead of using these worthless words, it is worth replacing them with more concrete and determined terms. For example, instead of "I will try", we can say to ourselves: "I will do it" or "I have decided to do it". Instead of "I will attempt", we can say: "I will do everything in my power to achieve it". Reformulating our language can positively impact our actions and help us focus on specific steps to achieve the goal.
Scientific research confirms that the way we formulate our goals and plans affects our behavior and effectiveness in their implementation. Using clear, concrete, and positive formulations can motivate us to act and help us achieve the intended results.
In conclusion, it is worth paying attention to our vocabulary and considering whether the terms we use really contribute to effective action. Changing language habits can be the key to greater efficiency and success in achieving goals. Therefore, instead of saying "I will try" or "I will attempt", let's opt for clear, concrete, and determined statements that will lead us straight to success.
Thank you for bringing up this topic.
At first glance, it may seem that using words like "I will try", "I will attempt", or "I will see" is completely natural and harmless. However, upon closer examination, it can be seen that such terms can be harmful to our effectiveness and efficiency in action.
When we say "I will try", we suggest to ourselves that we do not have to do everything in our power to achieve the goal. We already have a built-in excuse that allows us to potentially fail. The same applies to the word "attempt" - instead of approaching the task with determination and confidence, we leave ourselves open to failure.
So what can we do differently? Instead of using these worthless words, it is worth replacing them with more concrete and determined terms. For example, instead of "I will try", we can say to ourselves: "I will do it" or "I have decided to do it". Instead of "I will attempt", we can say: "I will do everything in my power to achieve it". Reformulating our language can positively impact our actions and help us focus on specific steps to achieve the goal.
Scientific research confirms that the way we formulate our goals and plans affects our behavior and effectiveness in their implementation. Using clear, concrete, and positive formulations can motivate us to act and help us achieve the intended results.
In conclusion, it is worth paying attention to our vocabulary and considering whether the terms we use really contribute to effective action. Changing language habits can be the key to greater efficiency and success in achieving goals. Therefore, instead of saying "I will try" or "I will attempt", let's opt for clear, concrete, and determined statements that will lead us straight to success.
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Very valuable entry, thank you 🌷👍🙂
Very valuable entry, thank you 🌷👍🙂
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I have my own opinion on this topic.
In this case, I want to change "want" to "doing" is not a long-term solution.
In my opinion, the BASIS is to realize that by not doing certain things, either we harm ourselves or contribute to the lack of development, and we do it knowingly without taking action.
The topics discussed are so broadly dressed in words.
It all comes down to understanding just how much we lose by not taking action. Whether it's health, business, or personal development.
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION, REMEMBER YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OWN.
Regards
I have my own opinion on this topic.
In this case, I want to change "want" to "doing" is not a long-term solution.
In my opinion, the BASIS is to realize that by not doing certain things, either we harm ourselves or contribute to the lack of development, and we do it knowingly without taking action.
The topics discussed are so broadly dressed in words.
It all comes down to understanding just how much we lose by not taking action. Whether it's health, business, or personal development.
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION, REMEMBER YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OWN.
Regards
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